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\"Silver-haired<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

“I’m terrible with names.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

“I’ve never been good at math.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

“I’m just not creative.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

“I’m too old to learn that now.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Have you ever stopped to listen to the things you casually say about your own mind? Most of us probably don’t give them a second thought. We tend to think they’re simply facts\u2014or at least, that’s what we tell ourselves. But what if some of them aren’t facts at all?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I Stopped Expecting More<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Years ago, I became increasingly concerned about my own cognitive abilities. I would walk rapidly into a room only to forget why I was there. Names disappeared almost as soon as I heard them, my memory seemed less reliable, and my brain simply didn’t feel as sharp as it once had.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mental arithmetic? I had given up on that decades earlier. Why struggle when calculators were so readily available?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then I began working seriously on my cognitive abilities. I used a combination of InnerTalk programs aimed at memory, concentration, learning, creativity, and cognitive enhancement, along with programs designed to address stress and create a calmer internal environment. It was my usual “kitchen sink” approach. \ud83d\ude0a The combination eventually became our Maximizing Brain Power<\/em><\/a> album.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And then something rather wonderful began to happen. Abilities I had quietly stopped expecting from my mind began showing up again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Where Had They Been?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Old memories became easier to access. Sometimes it almost felt as though I could see a memory turning away from me, only to have it turn back and become available again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Numbers became particularly fascinating. I sometimes began to see them almost as shapes that fit together, allowing me to “see” the answer to a simple calculation rather than laboriously work it out. Even obscure pieces of information would occasionally pop into my mind\u2014including facts about football, a subject in which I have absolutely no interest!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, I can’t tell you exactly what was happening in my brain, but I became fascinated by the question: Where had those abilities been?<\/em> Had I lost them and somehow regained them? Had the information always been there but become harder to access? Or had I simply stopped asking parts of my mind to show up because, somewhere along the way, I had decided those abilities were no longer available to me? I honestly don’t know. But isn’t it an interesting question?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When Expectations Begin Shaping Experience<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

One of the things I explore in Mind Training is the extraordinary influence our expectations can have on our experiences. We all know the idea of a self-fulfilling prophecy. We expect something to happen and then, often without realizing it, our attention, choices, and behavior begin helping to create the very outcome we expected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Think about remembering names. You forget someone’s name and think, I forgot his name.<\/em> It happens again, and eventually the observation becomes, I’m terrible with names. <\/em>Now you expect to forget names. Perhaps you pay a little less attention during introductions because, subconsciously, what’s the point? You won’t remember anyway. Then you forget the name and there it is: See? I told you. I’m terrible with names.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The belief may have begun as an observation, but somewhere along the way it quietly became part of what you expected from your mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Belief Isn’t Magic\u2014But It Matters<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I want to be careful here. Believing you’re a mathematical genius won’t suddenly give you an understanding of advanced calculus. Optimism doesn’t replace study, practice, or the work involved in developing a skill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Belief may not give us an ability we don’t possess\u2014but a limiting belief can stop us from fully using an ability we do.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before you decide what your limitations are, perhaps it’s worth questioning whether you’ve been accurately measuring your abilities\u2014or simply repeatedly confirming your expectations. After all, that’s the problem with a self-fulfilling prophecy. Every time it comes true, it gives us one more reason to believe it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Try a Little Experiment<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

For one day, listen to the way you talk about your own mind. Don’t try to change anything yet. Just notice. How often do you say\u2014or think\u2014things such as:<\/p>\n\n\n\n