While the details in our life experiences may differ, we all still share commonalities in our histories. Today, I want to talk about the most fundamental part of our lives—what we think of ourselves. I learned a long time ago that we have nothing if we are unable to believe in ourselves and our self worth. Life happens though, and sometimes our self-esteem can really take a beating. In time, we generally forget the specific incident, but the experience can remain with us, buried inside but still exerting its negative / destructive influence.
Backwards of Forwards?
As a general rule, when it comes to self-improvement/personal empowerment strategies, I tend to prefer to look forwards rather than backwards.
Looking backwards generally involves examining your past, searching for the problem areas and focusing on healing them. While this can be most helpful, one of the things I found early on is that our histories are extremely complex and there is generally not one single event that sparks off a problem, but rather there are numerous triggering events that lend power to a minor hurt, feeding it and making it grow. Searching out all of these issues can take a long time and in the process, there is not much real improvement going on in your current situation.
So, as I said, I tend to prefer looking forward and each day I ask myself, “What kind of InnerTalk would make this day better for me?” I then start each day choosing the InnerTalk programs I will play in the background all day that day while I work—simply a one day at a time kind of approach that works extremely well for me and for the many customers I speak to.
Uncovering Issues
However, there are times that life brings us circumstances whereby it becomes necessary to look backwards.
Sometimes we can find ourselves feeling triggered by a minor event, over reacting in certain situation, or simply feeling off for the umpteenth time. Or maybe you realize that, as you have dealt with the more acute issues in your life, so this process has uncovered a chronic issue that has simply layed in the background, exerting itself in subtle but destructive ways.
In many of these instances, there is an old, unresolved conflict that causes feeling of insecurity—something you had thought was totally healed and of no significance today.
If you feel that your personal empowerment journey has plateaued, or if success keeps slipping out of your grasp, then it is time to deal with the old pains and scars and to finally heal that inner, most secret part of yourself. This is the purpose behind our album, Reclaiming Your Inner Power: Ultimate Self Esteem.
Multi Faceted Esteem
Reclaiming Your Inner Power consists of, and works by:
- Eradicating Inadequacy—We can never do our best at anything when we feel incapable;
- Releasing Anxiety— It is hard to think creatively or be productive when your emotions feel so tied up;
- Healing Emotional Pain—We all have old hurts that need to be healed;
- Healing from Invalidation—Insecurities can easily lead to feeling as though everyone else is more important than you, and this simply is not true;
- Healing the Past—There comes a time when it is important just to let go of the past; and
- Freedom from Worry—Worry and anxiety can be two sides of the same coin. Putting energy in worrying robs you of the energy you need to move forward.
And for that extra boost, we also included:
- Echo-Tech Have It All!—If you don’t believe you deserve all good things, then you will push some of them away;
- OZO Inner Peace—This is perfect whenever you need a quick way to center yourself; and
- Power Imaging Well-Being and Self-Esteem—This is a great way to create your mental happy place that you can then go to whenever you feel the need.
Finding Wholeness
Ask yourself, How much are old fears, insecurities and feelings of inadequacy holding you back today? Putting a Band-Aid over old problems and emotional hurts, can help us get on with life in the short time, but then it only takes a little trigger here and a minor confrontation there for those feelings of inadequacy to come roaring back. The time has come for you to finally deal with these old issues and fully reclaim your inner power!
Reclaim Your Inner Power
Reclaiming Your Inner Power: Ultimate Self Esteem works on all of those various aspects that can rob you of your power and agency over your own life. Now it is time for you to finally heal those inner wounds and reclaim your inner power. Get a set for yourself, and discover for yourself how empowering real self-esteem can be. Click here to learn more.
Wishing you Love, Light and Laughter, always!
Ravinder Taylor
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